It’s 7:20 a.m. and I’m getting ready to board Southwest flight 4126, Phoenix to San Francisco. I’ve got butterflies in my stomach because I’m honestly not quite sure what I’ve gotten myself into. Landing at SFO, I catch a ride with my coworker, Michaela, and make the drive up to Lake Tahoe. We chat about some of the projects we’ve been working on and then venture to guess at what’s in store for the attendees of Epicurrence No 1.
A small group of 40 or so attendees arrive with a shared passion for design, but leave deeply bonded by the genuine relationships they’ve forged living under the same roof, breaking bread together, and sharing personal insights. Spectator event it is not. It’s a gathering that encourages everyone to venture into deeply vulnerable territory.
And it’s that vulnerability that makes an event like this work so well. It’s a big risk opening up to a group of your peers, but it’s also the quickest path to deep, authentic friendship and professional growth. Its something I’ve been thinking about a lot post-Epicurrence and I’m realizing just how important small, intimate events like this are for our industry.
When we cast aside the meticulously crafted fronts of our portfolios and social media accounts, we can develop meaningful relationships with our peers while enriching our profession. Here’s a few design insights I walked away with…
Embrace fear as an opportunity for growth
Before Epicurrence, I had never skied or snowboarded in my life. I was terrified of the fool I’d make of myself in front of such an amazingly talented group. But my fear was completely unfounded. Turns out there were plenty of folks in a similar boat and happy to help. I tip my hat to the amazing Phil Coffman, who stuck with me the first day as we watched parents teach their little kids how to ski—and mimicked their every move (“Ah, so that’s how I disconnect from my skis … French fries and pizza …”).
It wasn’t embarrassing. It was hilarious … and fun!
Questions to ask yourself about fear and design
How often, as a designer, do I waste time worrying about the skills I don’t have? Do I let that fear paralyze me and keep me from digging in and adding a new skill to my toolset? How often do I miss out on a fantastic opportunity for growth because of that fear?
Make empathy a transformational part of your design process
People don’t make decisions in a void. The clothes we wear, the foods we fancy, our taste in music, our experiences, and upbringing—all help shape the way we design.
At Epicurrence, I was given the unique opportunity to converse with an amazingly diverse group of people. From Tobias Van Schneider’s cool, calm, and collected demeanor to Marc Hemeon’s boisterous, fill-the-room energy, to Matt Spiel’s down-to-earth, hometown genuineness—everyone possessed a personality uniquely their own. What’s more, these personality differences weren’t barriers to friendship—they were an accelerant.
Questions to ask yourself about empathy and design
Do I take the time to walk in my users’ shoes—or my colleagues’? Do I celebrate their approaches to solving problems? Do I let their unique outlooks transform my own way of thinking and allow it to make me a better designer in the process? At the end of the day, do I temper that empathy with context and action?
Be balanced—let the journey inform the destination
People often say, “It’s not about the destination, it’s about the journey.” But I’m afraid I just don’t buy it. A terrible destination is still a terrible destination, regardless of how fun the ride was. Of course, if we get too preoccupied with reaching our journey’s end, we risk alienating everyone around us along the way. The answer, as is the case with many things in life, is balance. In other words: let the destination inform the journey.
At Epicurrence, I met many driven peers with some impressively lofty destinations in mind. But what really struck me was how those individuals back-translate their destinations into daily decisions that pushed their journey forward.
Questions to ask yourself about journeys, destinations, and design
Do my daily decisions push me toward a destination? As a designer, do I understand my users’ destinations? Do my decisions help them achieve those goals?
I’m thankful for the introspection Epicurrence afforded me and am excited to see what it will bring for future attendees. Vulnerability is an ingredient crucial to growing as a designer and as a person. And while vulnerability in and of itself doesn’t guarantee growth, it’s the environment in which it most easily thrives. Thanks to the entire crew for a headful of memories, deep thoughts, and laughs.